Sermon #13 Series:
Mark
Title: The Master’s Family
Text: Mark 3:31-35
Readings: Office:
Merle Hart Auditorium: Mark
Henson
Subject: The True Family of Christ
Date: Sunday Evening - February 23, 1997
Tape # T-45
Introduction:
In the message this morning (vv.
22-30), we saw our all glorious Savior accused by pompous, self-righteous
religionists of being in league with the devil. They said, “He hath Beelzebub, and by the prince of devils casteth he out devils.”
But the absurd charges and scandalous accusations of the Scribes were not the
only trials our Lord had to endure at this time.
In these last verses of the chapter,
we are told that “His brethren and his
mother came, and standing without, sent unto him, calling him.” Our Master’s
earthly family did not understand the beauty of his life, the necessity of his
obedience, and the purpose for which he had come into the world.
I do not doubt that they loved him as a brother. I have know
doubt that they were, at least somewhat, concerned for his physical welfare.
They were concerned about him over-exerting himself, not getting enough rest,
exposing himself to too much danger. They did not know what they were doing. I
am sure they did not, at least some of them did not, understand the implications
of their actions here. They understood very little, or gave little regard to
those words spoken by the Lord Jesus when he was just a boy twelve years old: “Wist ye not that I must be about my
Father’s business?” (Lk. 2:49).
The title of my message tonight is The
Master’s Family. My text is found in Mark 3:31-35.
Mark 3:31-35 "There came
then his brethren and his mother, and, standing without, sent unto him, calling
him. (32) And the multitude sat about
him, and they said unto him, Behold, thy mother and thy brethren without seek
for thee. (33) And he answered them,
saying, Who is my mother, or my brethren?
(34) And he looked round about on them which sat about him, and said,
Behold my mother and my brethren! (35) For
whosoever shall do the will of God, the same is my brother, and my sister, and
mother."
Proposition: In
these five verses, the Son of God identifies himself with his disciples and
owns his disciples as his true family.
Divisions: I
trust that God the Holy Spirit will be our Teacher tonight, as I endeavor to
set before you five spiritual lessons that are set before us in these verses
of Inspiration.
1.
Mary, the mother of our Lord’s humanity, was a sinner saved
by grace.
2.
Regarding spiritual matters, particularly matters of
obedience to the will of God, family and friends are never safe guides.
3.
The one thing required in all true servants of God is
faithfulness.
4.
All who are truly the disciples of Christ, and only they,
are the members of his family.
5.
All who abuse, harass, and persecute the children of God
have reason to tremble.
I. First, I want you to see that Mary, The Mother Of Our
Lord’s Humanity, Was A Sinner Saved By
Grace.
I have no doubt at all that the words
of our text, and the many other passages in the gospel narratives, which
identify Mary’s sinfulness and weaknesses of the flesh were intended by God to
be prophetic protectives against the idolatrous worship of Mary, which is so
much part of popish idolatry. We
recognize, and the Scriptures clearly teach, the immaculate conception of our
Lord Jesus in the womb of the virgin. But the papists would have us believe
that Mary herself was immaculately conceived and that she had no sin. Nothing
could be further from the truth.
No doubt, Mary was a woman of
honorable character. But she was no more spiritual and holy by nature than
Rahab, or you, or me. Mary was the sinful daughter of sinful parents. She was
made holy and honorable by the free grace of God in Christ, whom she herself
worshipped as her Savior and Lord.
Luke 1:46-48 "And Mary
said, My soul doth magnify the Lord, (47)
And my spirit hath rejoiced in God my Saviour. (48) For he hath regarded the low estate of his handmaiden: for,
behold, from henceforth all generations shall call me blessed."
Mary is here said to be one who shall
be called “blessed.” And blessed she
is. But we must never look upon her as being blessed in any way or to any
degree, except as she was and is blessed of God in Christ in exactly the same
way as all chosen sinners are blessed, eternally and immutably blessed of God
in Christ and for Christ’s sake (Eph. 1:3).
I cannot imagine any religious
practice more completely destitute of a biblical foundation than the exaltation
and adulation of Mary. The blasphemous practice of offering prayers to Mary are
as foolish and idolatrous as offering prayers to me!
A. The only
sinless human being ever to live in this world is the sinless Son of God, our
Savior.
B. The only
Mediator between God and men, by whom and through whom sinners may come to God,
is the God-man, our Savior, the Lord Jesus Christ.
C. The only human
being to whom prayer is to be made and through whom we may hope for grace, is
that Man who is God, the Lord Jesus Christ.
II. Second, we see in this passage an example of the fact that Regarding Spiritual Matters, Particularly Matters
Of Obedience To The Will Of God,
Family And Friends Are Never Safe Guides.
In our text, the Savior’s family
appear to have been concerned for his health and well-being. Perhaps they
feared that he was needlessly exposing himself to danger. They must have been
aware of the plots of the Scribes, Pharisees, and Herodians to kill him. So
they sent a messenger to fetch the Lord Jesus home.
I am aware that many of the commentators read into these
words suggestions of impertinence and disrespect. But I see no need for that,
especially on Mary’s part. She was, at times, a weak believer. But there is no
doubt that she was a genuine believer.
Though Mary, and probably our Master’s
other family members as well, had only the best of intentions and desired only
that which they thought was best for him, they were in no position to make that
judgment. This incident is not recorded here by accident. It is written for our
learning. Be sure you do not miss the lesson here given by the Spirit of God. In spiritual matters, we must not confer
with flesh and blood (Gal. 1:16).
A. If you would
know the state of your soul, do not be satisfied with the good opinions of
others.
B. If you would
know and do the will of God, you must not take into account the desires of your
own flesh, the desires of your family, or the counsel of human wisdom.
No one knows the will of God for you, in any given area of
your life, but you. It is your responsibility to do what you know the Lord
would have you to do.
·
Abraham would never
have taken Isaac up to Mt. Moriah if he had consulted with Sarah.
·
Had Moses listened to
Zipporah, the Lord would have killed him before he ever got back to Egypt.
·
Nathan would never
have taken God’s word to David, if he had considered what the consequences
might have been.
III. Third, our Lord Jesus exemplifies the fact that The One Thing Required In All True Servants
Of God Is Faithfulness.
In
the face of constant opposition from his enemies and the misguided concerns of
those people who were by nature dearest to him, our Savior’s resolve was firm
and unrelenting. He had set his face like a flint. He had a baptism to be
baptized with and was straitened until it was accomplished.
·
He was determined to
fulfil his Father’s will.
·
He was determined to
finish his work of establishing perfect righteousness for his people.
·
He was determined to
drink the cup of wrath as our Substitute upon the cursed tree, to satisfy the
justice of God for us.
May God give us grace as his people
and his servants to be like minded. Let nothing turn you from the narrow way.
Have you put your hand to the plow? Let nothing persuade you to look back. Have
you entered the race? Look not to the right hand nor to the left. Look only to
the Lord Jesus Christ, the Author and Finisher of our faith. If well meaning
friends would dissuade you, reply like Nehemiah of old: “I am doing a great work, and I cannot come down” (Neh. 6:3). If
those who truly love you and truly love Christ would unknowingly turn you aside
from doing that which you know to be the will of God, respond as Paul did to
his friends.
Acts 20:24 "But none of
these things move me, neither count I my life dear unto myself, so that I might
finish my course with joy, and the ministry, which I have received of the Lord
Jesus, to testify the gospel of the grace of God."
Acts 21:13-14 "Then Paul
answered, What mean ye to weep and to break mine heart? for I am ready not to
be bound only, but also to die at Jerusalem for the name of the Lord Jesus. (14) And when he would not be
persuaded, we ceased, saying, The will of the Lord be done."
Keep the eyes of your heart, the eyes
of your soul focused upon the Lord Jesus Christ, and the great host of men and
women who have gone before us into heaven, who were found faithful even unto
death.
Hebrews
12:1-4 "Wherefore seeing we also are compassed
about with so great a cloud of witnesses, let us lay aside every weight, and
the sin which doth so easily beset us, and
let us run with patience the race that is set before us, (2) Looking unto Jesus the author and finisher of our faith; who for the joy that was set
before him endured the cross, despising the shame, and is set down at the right
hand of the throne of God. (3) For
consider him that endured such contradiction of sinners against himself, lest
ye be wearied and faint in your minds.
(4) Ye have not yet resisted unto blood, striving against sin."
The Lord our God requires only one
thing of us. And the one thing he requires of us, it seems to me, is the very
least that we can give. Yet, it is the best we can give. God requires
faithfulness. May he give us grace to give it!
1 Corinthians 4:2 "Moreover it
is required in stewards, that a man be found faithful."
IV. Fourth, the Lord Jesus tells us that All Who Are
Truly The Disciples Of Christ, And Only
They, Are The Members Of His Family.
Mark 3:33-35 "And he
answered them, saying, Who is my mother, or my brethren? (34) And he looked round about on them which sat about him, and
said, Behold my mother and my brethren!
(35) For whosoever shall do the will of God, the same is my brother, and my
sister, and mother."
Who can imagine the depth of love our
Savior had for his family as a man? Who can imagine how he loved that woman who
nursed and nurtured him as a baby? Who can imagine how he must have loved his
brothers and sisters, those who were born from the same womb as he was? No
mortal has ever come close to knowing the affection of Christ’s heart as a man
for his aunts, uncles, and cousins. Yet, in comparison to his chosen, in
comparison to you and I who believe on his name, our Lord Jesus gave no regard
to the desires of his own family and dearest kinsmen.
There is great comfort to be found in
the things recorded here for every true believer. There is One in heaven, who
is both God and man, One who is both bone of our bone and flesh of our flesh
who knows us, loves us, cares for us, and counts us to be his own family. We
may be poorer than dirt; but we have no cause to be ashamed. We are the
brothers and sisters of the Son of God! We may be persecuted and mistreated,
even in our own families, because of our faith in Christ. If that is the case
with you, take David’s words for your own. “when
my father and mother forsake me, the Lord will take me up” (Ps. 27:10). To
be numbered among those who are in this family is to be…
·
The Object of God’s
Constant Care.
·
The Beneficiary of
God’s Special Providence.
·
An Heir of God and
Joint-Heir with Christ.
1 John 3:1-3 "Behold, what
manner of love the Father hath bestowed upon us, that we should be called the
sons of God: therefore the world knoweth us not, because it knew him not. (2) Beloved, now are we the sons of
God, and it doth not yet appear what we shall be: but we know that, when he
shall appear, we shall be like him; for we shall see him as he is. (3) And every man that hath this hope
in him purifieth himself, even as he is pure."
V. Fifth, this passage contains a solemn warning for the persecutors
of God’s saints: All Who Abuse, Harass, And Persecute The Children
Of God Have Reason To Tremble.
If you are inclined to slander, abuse,
malign, or persecute one of God’s children, or one of God’s servants, you would
be wise to remember, they are the sons and daughters of God Almighty. Those who
are the objects of your scorn are the true blood-kin of the Son of God! This is
the family of him who is King of kings and Lord of lords. We have a mighty,
mighty Friend, who has sworn that he will avenge his own elect in all things.
Proverbs 23:11 "For their
redeemer is mighty; he shall plead
their cause with thee."
Application:
1.
The Lord Jesus Christ in heaven always pleads our cause.
2.
Let us ever be found faithful in his cause.