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Sermon #2237 — Miscellaneous Sermons


      Title:                                                         Has God ever

      sent you to hell?


      Text:                                  Lamentations 3:1-20

      Subject:               God’s Method of Grace

      Date:                                Tuesday Evening — August 18, 2015

      Readings:           Lindsay Campbell and Cody Henson



Open your Bibles with me to the Book of Lamentations — Lamentations 3. Have you ever been to hell? — Has God ever sent you to hell? That’s my subject. — Has God ever sent you to hell? — That’s the title of my message. When I was a nineteen year old boy the Lord graciously caused a faithful gospel preacher to cross my path who became a lifelong friend and a man of tremendous influence in my life. I’ve mentioned his name to you many, many times. Bro. Harry Graham was more than 30 years my senior. He had pastored a small church in Asheboro, NC for most of his adult life. Shelby and I spent many evenings in his home, with his wife, Nola, in sweet fellowship. I was never in Bro. Graham’s company that I did not learn something that helped me. How much I learned from that faithful man! What a blessing he was, and continues to be, to my life.


One night, as I sat at his feet, on his hearth, just before leaving, Harry made this statement to me — “When God deals with a sinner in mercy, he takes him to hell first.”


That is a pretty good description of what we read in the 3rd chapter Lamentations. In this little Book of masterful poetry, the Lord God gives us a vivid, instructive picture of his method of grace (Lamentations 3:1-20).


(Lamentations 3:1-20) “I am the man that hath seen affliction by the rod of his wrath. 2  He hath led me, and brought me into darkness, but not into light. 3  Surely against me is he turned; he turneth his hand against me all the day. 4  My flesh and my skin hath he made old; he hath broken my bones. 5  He hath builded against me, and compassed me with gall and travail. 6  He hath set me in dark places, as they that be dead of old. 7  He hath hedged me about, that I cannot get out: he hath made my chain heavy. 8  Also when I cry and shout, he shutteth out my prayer. 9  He hath inclosed my ways with hewn stone, he hath made my paths crooked. 10  He was unto me as a bear lying in wait, and as a lion in secret places. 11  He hath turned aside my ways, and pulled me in pieces: he hath made me desolate. 12  He hath bent his bow, and set me as a mark for the arrow. 13  He hath caused the arrows of his quiver to enter into my reins. 14  I was a derision to all my people; and their song all the day. 15  He hath filled me with bitterness, he hath made me drunken with wormwood. 16  He hath also broken my teeth with gravel stones, he hath covered me with ashes. 17  And thou hast removed my soul far off from peace: I forgat prosperity. 18  And I said, My strength and my hope is perished from the LORD: 19  Remembering mine affliction and my misery, the wormwood and the gall. 20  My soul hath them still in remembrance, and is humbled in me.”




Let me give you an overview of Jeremiah’s Lamentations. As the title (Lamentations) indicates, this is a book full of grief and sorrow, grief and sorrow caused by God’s judgment upon Judah and Jerusalem. The judgment Jeremiah had faithfully warned the nation of had now come to pass. The Babylonians had invaded the land, destroyed Jerusalem, and carried Israel away into captivity.


There was only a small remnant left in the city of Jerusalem. Jeremiah was among that remnant. The Book opens with weeping prophet weeping over the city and people he dearly loved, for whom he had labored faithfully all his life, as he beheld the ruins of the city. The Book begins with a burst of anguish and sorrow.


(Lamentations 1:1-3) “How doth the city sit solitary, that was full of people! How is she become as a widow! She that was great among the nations, and princess among the provinces, how is she become tributary! (2) She weepeth sore in the night, and her tears are on her cheeks: among all her lovers she hath none to comfort her: all her friends have dealt treacherously with her, they are become her enemies. (3) Judah is gone into captivity because of affliction, and because of great servitude: she dwelleth among the heathen, she findeth no rest: all her persecutors overtook her between the straits.”


Jeremiah seems to be on one of the hills overlooking the city. There he sat down and wept, and lamented his lamentation over Jerusalem, mourning the fall of his country. The desolation of the city by the Babylonian army is described by Jeremiah in his Book of Lamentations with all the vividness of an eye-witness.




Six hundred years later we see that Prophet of whom all the prophets spoke, the Lord Jesus Christ our Savior, upon the slopes of the Mount of Olives. The sight of that proud, rebellious city, doomed by their own obstinate rebellion brought such a mighty rush of compassion to the soul of our Savior that he wept aloud. The Man of Sorrows cried…


(Matthew 23:37-38) “O Jerusalem, Jerusalem, thou that killest the prophets, and stonest them which are sent unto thee, how often would I have gathered thy children together, even as a hen gathereth her chickens under her wings, and ye would not! (38) Behold, your house is left unto you desolate.”


It is obvious, then, at the outset, that the weeping prophet was a type of our weeping Savior. There are pictures of Christ scattered throughout these five chapters. Both Jeremiah in his sorrow and Jerusalem under the wrath of God portray our Redeemer.


(Lamentations 1:12) “Is it nothing to you, all ye that pass by? behold, and see if there be any sorrow like unto my sorrow, which is done unto me, wherewith the LORD hath afflicted me in the day of his fierce anger.”


(Lamentations 2:15-16) “All that pass by clap their hands at thee; they hiss and wag their head at the daughter of Jerusalem, saying, Is this the city that men call The perfection of beauty, The joy of the whole earth? (16) All thine enemies have opened their mouth against thee: they hiss and gnash the teeth: they say, We have swallowed her up: certainly this is the day that we looked for; we have found, we have seen it.”


(Matthew 27:39) “And they that passed by reviled him, wagging their heads.”


(Lamentations 3:8) “Also when I cry and shout, he shutteth out my prayer.”


(Mat 27:46) “And about the ninth hour Jesus cried with a loud voice, saying, Eli, Eli, lama sabachthani? that is to say, My God, my God, why hast thou forsaken me?”


(Lamentations 3:14) “I was a derision to all my people; and their song all the day.”


(Psalm 69:12) “They that sit in the gate speak against me; and I was the song of the drunkards.”


(Lamentations 3:15) “He hath filled me with bitterness, he hath made me drunken with wormwood.”


(Lamentations 3:19) “Remembering mine affliction and my misery, the wormwood and the gall.”


(Psalm 69:21) “They gave me also gall for my meat; and in my thirst they gave me vinegar to drink.”


(Lamentations 3:30) “He giveth his cheek to him that smiteth him: he is filled full with reproach.”


(Psalm 69:20) “Reproach hath broken my heart; and I am full of heaviness: and I looked for some to take pity, but there was none; and for comforters, but I found none.”


These verses clearly speak of our Savior. The language reminds us of Isaiah’s prophetic words.


(Isaiah 50:6) “I gave my back to the smiters, and my cheeks to them that plucked off the hair: I hid not my face from shame and spitting.”


This was fulfilled by the smiting of our Lord by the soldiers when he was brought before Pilate for judgment. So this little book of Lamentations captures the agony and sorrow that was so much a part of our Lord’s ministry throughout his life, particularly when he was made sin for us and suffered all the horror of God’s infinite wrath as our Substitute at Calvary. Our Redeemer earned the title — “A man of sorrows, and acquainted with grief” (Isaiah 53:3).




If you read these chapters with care, you cannot avoid seeing that Jeremiah assumed the sins of his people as his own sins and spoke of God’s judgment as that which had fallen upon him for sin. As it was with Jeremiah in the typical picture, it was with our Savior in reality. Our all-glorious Christ, as our sin-atoning Substitute, was made sin for us, that we might be made the righteousness of God in him (2 Corinthians 5:21). He was cursed that we might be blessed (Galatians 3:13). He died for us, the Just for the unjust, that we might be made just and live forever.


Divine Judgment


Throughout these five chapters, we are taught that judgment is the work of God, the righteous retribution of God upon men because of willful rebellion and sin. And we are taught that all for whom the Lord God has reserved mercy are made to acknowledge that God’s righteous judgments are just that — righteous and just.


Chapter 1 — In the first part of chapter 1 Jeremiah speaks of Jerusalem as a woman bereft of her husband and children. In the second part Zion speaks, and bewails her misery, God’s prophet identifying himself with the people, their sins, and the judgment they had earned. She acknowledges that her punishment is from the Lord, and confesses — “The Lord is righteous; I have rebelled” (1:18).


Chapter 2 — In chapter 2 the prophet gives a remarkable description of the ruin of Jerusalem. No less than 48 times in these 22 verse, Jeremiah declares that all the things Judah suffered was God’s work.


Chapter 3 — In chapter 3 Jeremiah again ascribes the judgments that befell the city as the work of God. Twenty-two times he asserts that fact. Again, he makes the miseries of the people his own. Out of the midst of the misery he stays himself upon the Lord’s faithfulness and his unfailing compassion, and asserts unhesitatingly that, — “He doth not afflict willingly, nor grieve the children of men” (3:33).


Chapter 4 — In the fourth chapter God’s fearful judgments are again described. — “The Lord hath accomplished his fury” (4:11)


Chapter 5 — In the fifth chapter it is not the prophet who speaks, not the substitute, but the people. Chapter five shows us what happens when the Lord God brings sinners to repentance. He brings his elect down to hell that he might cause them to cry to him for mercy, confessing their guilt and sin, before the holy, sovereign Lord God. That is what we see here.


(Lamentations 5:1) “Remember, O LORD, what is come upon us: consider, and behold our reproach.”


(Lamentations 5:15-17) “The joy of our heart is ceased; our dance is turned into mourning. (16) The crown is fallen from our head: woe unto us, that we have sinned! (17) For this our heart is faint; for these things our eyes are dim.”


(Lamentations 5:19) “Thou, O LORD, remainest forever; thy throne from generation to generation.”


(Lamentations 5:21-22) “Turn thou us unto thee, O LORD, and we shall be turned; renew our days as of old. (22) But thou hast utterly rejected us; thou art very wroth against us.”


The Message


Now, turn back to chapter three and let me show you the message of this Book. Remember, the judgments described here did not fall upon the Philistines, the Ammonites, or the Moabites. The people here severely afflicted, brought into terrible bondage, were the children of Israel, God’s covenant people. They were brought down that they might be brought up. They were abased that they might be exalted. They were laid low that they might be lifted up. In all things that physical nation, the physical seed of Abraham, was representative and typical of God’s elect, the spiritual seed of Abraham, the Israel of God.


·      Here is our hope (3:21-25).


(Lamentations 3:21-25) “This I recall to my mind, therefore have I hope. (22) It is of the LORD’S mercies that we are not consumed, because his compassions fail not. (23) They are new every morning: great is thy faithfulness. (24) The LORD is my portion, saith my soul; therefore will I hope in him. (25) The LORD is good unto them that wait for him, to the soul that seeketh him.”


·      Here is God’s counsel (3:26-30).


(Lamentations 3:26-30) “It is good that a man should both hope and quietly wait for the salvation of the LORD. (27) It is good for a man that he bear the yoke in his youth. (28) He sitteth alone and keepeth silence, because he hath borne it upon him. (29) He putteth his mouth in the dust; if so be there may be hope. (30) He giveth his cheek to him that smiteth him: he is filled full with reproach.”


·      Here is the explanation of God’s strange work (3:31-33).


Has the Lord God brought you down to hell? Has he set his holy wrath in your heart? Has he made you see that you are a child of wrath, deserving eternal damnation in hell? Has he convinced you that if you should right now fall into everlasting torment, that is exactly what you deserve? If so, listen carefully. This was written in the Book of God for you.


(Lamentations 3:31-33) “For the Lord will not cast off forever: (32) But though he cause grief, yet will he have compassion according to the multitude of his mercies. (33) For he doth not afflict willingly nor grieve the children of men.”


Salvation is obtained by simple, childlike faith in the Lord Jesus Christ. But any faith that does not arise from a felt need of Christ and is not accompanied by a genuine conviction of sin is not true faith.

·      No Conviction — No Conversion

·      No Misery — No Mercy

·      No Grief — No Grace

·      No Abasement — No Exaltation

·      No Casting Down — No Lifting Up


All who know the Lord God in the experience of his saving operations of grace freely acknowledge and frankly confess that God is strictly righteous in the exercise of his grace and truly gracious in his righteous judgments (Psalms 32:1-4; 51:1-5). These are the things that Jeremiah learned by deep, painful experience and recorded in this third chapter of Lamentations for our learning and comfort. I want us to focus our attention for a few minutes on verse 32. In this verse the Holy Spirit calls our attention to three things by the pen of his prophet.


·      God’s Strange Deed — “But though he cause grief.”

·      God’s Sweet Delight — “Yet will he have compassion.

·      God’s Sovereign Design – “According to the multitude of his mercies.”


Proposition: Before God shows mercy he causes grief; and both works of grace, the grief that precedes it and the mercy that follows, are according to God’s sovereign, eternal purpose.


God’s Strange Deed


First, Jeremiah mentions God’s Strange Deed. —But though he cause grief.” Jeremiah acknowledged the fact that the Lord our God is the first cause of all things. He performs all things for his people. He works all things together for good to his elect. The doctrine of God’s universal providence is not some secret doctrine hidden in the obscure pages of one of the Minor Prophets. It is a doctrine taught and illustrated throughout the Bible. It is obvious in the history of every child of grace and the confession of every sinner who is taught of God.


When you read this third chapter of Lamentations, you understand that Jeremiah was a man who had experienced terrible grief in his soul; but, being a man of God-given faith, he understood and acknowledged that the cause of all his grief was the Lord his God. – Though he cause grief.”


The prophet of God acknowledged God in all his ways, and owned him as the origin of all things. Twenty-two times, referring to his woes in verses 1-17, he said, “God did it!”

·      When he was afflicted, he said it was by the rod of God’s wrath (v. 1).

·      When his soul was bought into bondage, he said God had hedged him about and put a chain upon him (v. 7).

·      When he was overwhelmed with grief, he said, He “hath pulled me in pieces” (vv. 8-19).

·      When he was, by these things brought to utter hopelessness in himself, he found hope in the Lord God (vv. 21-31).


Oh, blessed, blessed, blessed are those sinners who have been brought down to utter hopelessness in themselves that they might find hope in the Lord God!


·      The basis of hope is the Lord God himself (vv. 21-25).


(Lamentations 3:21-25) “This I recall to my mind, therefore have I hope. (22) It is of the LORD’S mercies that we are not consumed, because his compassions fail not. (23) They are new every morning: great is thy faithfulness. (24) The LORD is my portion, saith my soul; therefore will I hope in him. (25) The LORD is good unto them that wait for him, to the soul that seeketh him.”


            (1.) His abundant mercies!

            (2.) His unfailing compassions!

            (3.) His great faithfulness!

            (4.) His infinite fullness (v. 24).

            (5.) His saving goodness!


·      The only thing an utterly helpless, hopeless sinner can do for God’s salvation is wait (v. 26).


·      The place where a sinner ought to wait and must wait for God’s salvation is in the dust of repentance before the throne of grace (vv. 27-31). We must…


(Lamentations 3:27-31) “It is good for a man that he bear the yoke in his youth. (28) He sitteth alone and keepeth silence, because he hath borne it upon him. (29) He putteth his mouth in the dust; if so be there may be hope. (30) He giveth his cheek to him that smiteth him: he is filled full with reproach. (31) For the Lord will not cast off for ever:”


Ø  (1.) Bear the yoke of guilt — Conviction (v. 27).

Ø  (2.) Personally do business with the Almighty (v. 28).

Ø  (3.) Make our headquarters in the dust (v. 29) — Repentance.

Ø  (4.) Justify God in our own condemnation (v. 30).

Ø  (5.) Look to God in Christ for mercy (v. 31) — The Publican!


This is what Jeremiah is teaching us. I cannot explain it to folks who have not experienced it. But this is the experience of every heaven born soul. There is a felt darkness and confusion in the soul when God convinces a sinner of his personal vileness and hell worthiness. — “He hath led me, and brought me into darkness, but not into light” (3:2).


This is the grief Jeremiah is talking about. It is a spiritual grief caused in the soul by God. We recognize that every event of providence that brings grief is God’s work.

·      He brings the cloud over the earth as well as the sunshine (Genesis 9:14). If there were no clouds, you would never see a rainbow!

·      He makes peace and creates evil in the earth (Isaiah 45:7).


But the eye of faith also sees that spiritual grief and sorrow are the works of God’s hands. God’s holy displeasure with sin is seen everywhere. It must be experienced and acknowledged.

·      When Adam sinned in the garden, God made him feel his hot displeasure (Genesis 3:17-19).

·      When God gave his law at Sinai, the thunder and the darkness, and the trembling made known his displeasure with sin in a way that Israel felt it and heard it.

·      And when God comes to a sinner in saving operations of grace, the very first thing he does is make that sinner to know his displeasure. — God will never give grace where he does not cause grief (John 16:8-12).


“When sin is not felt and hated, salvation will never be enjoyed. Where wrath has not been dreaded, love will not be experienced. The heart that is a stranger to misery must be a foreigner to mercy.” — (Thomas Bradbury).


Do you remember what I told you Bro. Harry Graham taught me? — “When God deals with a sinner in mercy, he takes him to hell first.”


(John 16:8-11) “And when he is come, he will reprove the world of sin, and of righteousness, and of judgment: (9) Of sin, because they believe not on me; (10) Of righteousness, because I go to my Father, and ye see me no more; (11) Of judgment, because the prince of this world is judged.”


This is God’s strange doing, his strange work. He causes grief so that he may bestow grace! — He created “the waster to destroy” (Isaiah 54:16) all earthly, creature comfort, to bring us down to hell (Psalm 107), so that we might look to the crucified Christ and find all comfort for our souls in him alone.


·      God’s dealings with Ephraim (Hosea 5:14 – 6:3).


(Hosea 5:14-15) “For I will be unto Ephraim as a lion, and as a young lion to the house of Judah: I, even I, will tear and go away; I will take away, and none shall rescue him. (15) I will go and return to my place, till they acknowledge their offence, and seek my face: in their affliction they will seek me early.”


(Hosea 6:1-3) “Come, and let us return unto the LORD: for he hath torn, and he will heal us; he hath smitten, and he will bind us up. (2) After two days will he revive us: in the third day he will raise us up, and we shall live in his sight. (3) Then shall we know, if we follow on to know the LORD: his going forth is prepared as the morning; and he shall come unto us as the rain, as the latter and former rain unto the earth.”


·      Eliphaz to Job (Job 5:17-18).


(Job 5:17-18) “Behold, happy is the man whom God correcteth: therefore despise not thou the chastening of the Almighty: (18) For he maketh sore, and bindeth up: he woundeth, and his hands make whole.”


It is my prayer that God will bring you to grieve over your sin. Those who are grieved by God, God alone can gladden. Do what it will, the world cannot comfort when God convicts. — “Blessed are they that mourn.”


Illustration: My own experience.


God’s Sweet Delight


That, I hope, will explain God’s strange deed. But I must move on. Secondly, Jeremiah speaks of God’s sweet delight — Yet, will he have compassion!” — How sweet! How blessed! — “Though he cause grief, yet will he have compassion!” He who wounds us will heal us. God, who makes us to know and feel our ruin, will also make us to know his remedy for our ruin in Christ. — “He will have compassion!


What is compassion! — Compassion is co-passion. It is sympathy with the sufferings and sorrows of others. It is exhibited in making one’s self a companion with sufferers and mourners. The unfailing compassions of the Triune God are made known to sinners in the gospel (Ephesians 1:3-14).

·      The Father’s Election!

·      The Son’s Redemption!

·      The Spirit’s Call!


When hell gaped for me as its coveted prey, when Satan roared against my soul until my very heart quaked and trembled, God almighty, in sovereign grace interposed himself. He stepped in between my soul and hell. And, instead of pouring out upon me the wrath that I know I fully deserved, he showed me that he had spent his wrath against me upon his dear Son, and embraced me in the arms of his everlasting love! (Ephesians 2:1-4).


Nothing moves God to compassion but his own purpose of grace and the sovereign inclination of his own love.

·      Psalm 86:15

·      Romans 9:11-18


The Lord God sends his messengers of compassion to sinners (2 Chronicles 36:15).


(2 Chronicles 36:15) “And the LORD God of their fathers sent to them by his messengers, rising up betimes, and sending; because he had compassion on his people, and on his dwelling place.”


·      His Son to redeem (1 John 4:10).

·      His servants to proclaim (Isa. 40:1-2).

·      His Spirit to convince (John 16:8).


Who can read the biographies of the earthly life of the incarnate God, and doubt his compassion toward sinful men?

·      The Fainting Souls (Matthew 9:35-36).

·      The Hungry Multitude (Matthew 15:32).

·      The Blind Eyes of Poor Men (Matthew 20:34).

·      The Cry of a Poor Leper (Mark 1:40-41).

·      The Widow of Nain (Luke 13:15).

·      The Good Samaritan (Luke 10:30-35).


Our great God is full of compassion toward his sinning people (Psalm 78:38). Our great Savior is a compassionate High Priest (Hebrews 5:2). The Holy Spirit of grace is a Spirit of compassion (Ephesians 4:30 — “Grieve” requires compassion).


God’s Sovereign Design


Thirdly, Jeremiah speaks of God’s sovereign design. He causes grief that he might have compassion “according to the multitude of his mercies.” Did you ever notice how those words “according to” are used in the Scriptures to explain God’s works of grace for and in his people?

·      Predestination (Ephesians 1:11).

·      Spiritual Blessings (Ephesians 1:3-4).

·      Redemption and Forgiveness (Ephesians 1:6-7).

·      Supplied Needs (Philippians 4:19).

·      Grace to Help (Ephesians 4:7).

·      Divine Providence (Romans 8:28).


Everything God does or allows to be done is by design. He says, “My counsel shall stand, and I will do all my pleasure” (Isaiah 46:10). He purposes! He performs! He perfects! Hell itself and all its influences do no more than serve his purpose!


Great is the mystery, truly great

That hell’s designs should hell defeat.

But here eternal wisdom shines,

For Satan works what God designs!


That misery of sin that God brings by conviction is the forerunner of mercy, which God purposed to perform in eternity. Felt misery for sins we have committed is a hopeful sign that the mercy is near which God predestinated!


God’s Mercy


Let me wrap this message up by telling you about God’s mercy. Lot called it “magnified” mercy (Genesis 19:19). Nehemiah called it “manifold mercies” (Nehemiah 9:27) — Mercy for sinners of every kind and clime. Jeremiah here calls it multitudinous mercy. What a revenue of mercy there is in our God! He is “rich in mercy” (Ephesians 2:4). “He delighteth in mercy” (Micah 7:18). God’s multiplied mercies remove our multiplied miseries.

·      Eternal Mercy!

·      Sure Mercy!

·      Forgiving Mercy (Psalm 51)!

·      Daily Mercy!




(Isaiah 55:7) “Let the wicked forsake his way, and the unrighteous man his thoughts: and let him return unto the LORD, and he will have mercy upon him; and to our God, for he will abundantly pardon.”


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